Why is the Catholic Church against IVF?

Posted: 5 May 2013

ivf-blueIf you take a quick poll of the next ten strangers you encounter and ask them about the Catholic Church and its attitude towards in vitro fertilization (IVF) you are likely to get two responses: half will not realise the Church has a concern with IVF and the other half will state how ridiculous it is that the Church is concerned about a process that can bring children to couples who are unable to conceive. Actually the Church has more than a concern; the Church has taught since IVF came about, that the process is “gravely immoral”. Not that the Church just made up this teaching when IVF began in the late 1970s, rather it applied its ongoing understanding of sexuality to this particular question. None the less, couples considering IVF as a last hope don’t like being told that their choice is gravely immoral so it’s worth considering just what the real problem is.

IVF presents a host of problems. First, it has no guaranteed success. The success rate of IVF is generally 50% for women under thirty but falls to just 20% for women under 40. Second, IVF costs a lot of money. Each treatment cycle can cost a couple around $3000 (after government assistance) whether there is success or not. Third, IVF has health risks. About 30% of IVF patients experience at least a mild case of ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (OHSS) which causes swollen, painful ovaries. While mild cases can be treated with over-the-counter pain medication a small percentage develop severe OHSS which may require hospitalisation. Fourth, IVF creates a life by destroying others. A usual cycle of IVF produces multiple embryos to assist with the success rate and also to store if a couple wishes to try for more children further down the track. However the truth is these embryos are mostly unused. There are 120,000 embryos sitting in frozen storage in Australia, the majority of which will be eventually destroyed with about 90% of IVF couples choosing to discard them. It is worth remembering that an embryo is no longer just an egg or a sperm, it is a new human life. A couple must ask themselves if the birth of one of their children justifies the deliberate creation and destruction of a few of their other children.

Another real concern with IVF is the physical and emotional cost. And while the actual physical process of IVF is difficult enough perhaps even more serious is the emotional toll that must be borne in the relationship. A book well worth reading is The Hollow Heart by Irish journalist Martina Devlin; it is subtitled ‘The true story of one woman’s desire to give life and how it almost destroyed her own’. In three attempts at IVF Martina lost nine embryos but in the process she also lost her marriage and was driven to the depths of despair. While Martina and her husband began with the very natural desire for children this eventually became all encompassing for Martina so that everything else in her life (including her husband) became worthless. Children are a great blessing but if we cling too tightly to any blessing it can become for us a curse.

Perhaps surprisingly, even the reason above is not the Church’s primary concern with IVF. The fundamental problem with IVF is that it separates the sexual act from the procreative act. The child is not conceived out of the self-giving act of love between husband and wife in union with God. Rather, the power of life is entrusted to doctors and biologists while the couple is effectively reduced to providers of physical matter and mere observers. The sexual union though is not just an incidental action of marriage but the very action that makes marriage real and unites it to God’s love. IVF has no regard for the sexual union and thus has no regard for God’s plan around life and love.

The Church understands the great suffering of sterility and encourages good science into reducing the condition; and to highlight one example, there has been great success for couples in naprotechnology, which combines medical science with the proper dignity owed to married love. However, the Church is conscious that a child is always a gift, not something owed. When a couple vow before the priest to accept children lovingly from God there is always the inverted and somewhat harder aspect of the vow which infers that children may not be sent even after years of doing all the right things and saying all the right prayers. Couples who are struggling with fertility are called to work together with each other and with God to discover the unique way in which their marriage is called to a life of fruitfulness.

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Are Electronic Games Making Us Stupid?

Posted: 9 April 2012

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What is the obsession with electronic games? Last week a business woman was standing in front of me on the train physically shaking her mobile phone to ‘mix’ some sort of potion. Just yesterday the man sitting next to me was hitting his screen like a mental patient in a quest to break open coloured balls and release stars. Why are seemingly normal people filling their time with activities that would serve to occupy the intellectual capacity of a four year old?

Now granted, not all electronic games are about mixing potions or breaking open coloured balls. In the most popular mobile phone game Angry Birds – downloaded 50 million times – players use a slingshot to launch birds at pigs with the intent of destroying all the pigs on the playing field. There are games where one can grow and harvest crops, save the world from alien invasion or match up coloured tiles. One friend told me she caught two students in her classroom milking a cow on their iPhones!

I am sure there are some benefits to be gained from some electronic games (after all nothing is completely devoid of goodness). However, my assertion is that far more is to be gained by never playing electronic games than mastering such games and then looking for the supposed benefits. In this instance my concern is not even with the violence, sexual innuendo or criminal behaviour that many games contain (although there is plenty of concern to be had there). The issue is that games which are as foolish as launching birds at pigs or as complex as leading an army into battle are actually taking the reality out of reality.

We are called to be men and women who live in the world, who engage with people, who build communities. We are called to feed the hungry, cloth the naked, visit the sick and teach the ignorant. We are called to be mothers and fathers and raise up children who will lead lives in pursuit of truth, beauty and goodness. We are called to leave the world in a better state than when we arrived. And I just can’t see how electronic gaming fits into any of that.

Yes we all need recreation and rest time but sneaking in a few minutes of ‘Chicken Revolution’ or ‘Sonic the Hedgehog’ while queuing for coffee or waiting for the bus is hardly in the realm of authentic recreation. Mobile phone games take the time a person would have formally devoted to staring into space or reflecting on life. Home video games take the time a person would formally have devoted to speaking to a human person or doing anything else; playing a board game, exercising, building, sewing, cooking.

Our society already has a sever lack of men who would be men and of fathers who would truly engage with their families. Manhood is given to defend women, to raise children, to protect a nation…in reality…not on a computer screen. How many men are living like teenagers, spending hours each night pretending to be a superhero…when they really need to be a superhero to their family? How many relationships flounder because a man is more concerned with getting to the next level on his PlayStation? All men, particularly young men, need to guard against becoming too soft, becoming too used to their own pleasure. Being trained by an electronic game to ‘switch off’ does not correspond to true masculinity.

It is not just the men though; society needs women who truly live to nurture and care. In 2010 a woman in her mid 30’s was banned by the court from using computers after her obsession with a game led to her children being reduced to eating cold baked beans from the tin while the dogs starved to death and their bodies were left on the lounge room for two months. In that same year a South Korean couple was found guilty of letting their newborn baby starve to death while tending to a virtual child in the online game ‘Prius’. The couple played in internet cafes for up to 10 hours a day and bottle fed their baby only once a day. These are not bad people, they simply responded according to the design of the game and that is to become addictive, to cause us to desire refuge in a world of pixels instead of the one we actually live in.

I am just putting the thought out there, that maybe, just maybe, electronic gaming brings less good to our lives than we might think. So next time you have ten spare minutes take a moment to question what actual purpose breaking open coloured balls on your mobile phone is going to have in your overall life.

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